Guidance
Swipe with intention
The deck is a quiet place. Nothing you pass on is announced to anyone, and no one is told you looked. Move at the pace of a serious decision, not a quick one.
Passes stay private
Swipe with intention
A left swipe is private — the member is never notified, and no one else sees it. Take your time with each profile: read the intention, the city, the wali arrangements. One serious conversation beats twenty casual ones, and there is no prize for swiping quickly.
Looking for
If you want a second, third or fourth wife
Filter by Looking for: Second, third or fourth wife. Polygyny is allowed and openly labelled on every profile that offers it, so you will only see women who have chosen this. Expect to be asked about your first wife's knowledge of your search and about how you provide fairly across your households — answer honestly and in full.
Looking for
If you want to be a first wife only
Filter by Looking for: Marriage (first wife) so you only see men who are not already married. Your preference is respected without explanation, and you will never be shown a profile that does not match it.